“BINDU” as we know is a single point and in its nascent presence, lies unfolded the mystic secret of all universes. Think of it and your mind cannot ever grasp it and the words never be able to narrate it. beyond all duality and thought, The Bindu in each of us is the SELF that exists in its formless autonomy as THE ONE. in this state, there cannot exist two. But the journey to the Atma Bindu traverses through many phases and probably lifetimes of the pursuit of arrival.
Sadhana and preparation can take us leaps and bounds, reward us with experiences, and till the soil. But no one can ever promise or know when one will arrive at the distillation of the SHIVA SHAKTI merger as the ATMA BINDU/ ARDHANAREESHWAR consciousness.
Grace alone will choose when, how and who will be chosen. Until the arrival, the steadfast disciplined practice of Atma Vichara needs to be practiced. Whatever spiritual path one may follow, But if there is no MANAN (meditation on the truth) or JIGYASA (inquiry into the truth), sooner or later, It will fall apart or merely become a plastic flower with no fragrance.
The ARDHANAREESHWARA is not merely an androgyne but a reality with its two paradoxes in sambhoga ( sacred mating). It is not as simple as the coming together of the yin and yang but is the wondrous blossoming of the fusion within. Reveling in this state is the only outcome after it has happened as the pursuit and its results both drop off like dead snakeskin.
May all arrive at the ATMA BINDU and discover the Nondual self that we are!