The addiction of narcissist co dependence
The glorification of love and the hype of unconditional love etc in social and spiritual circles creates a bias and conditioning of how love ought to be..it ought to be a sacrifice of some sort, where one comes to believe that only by losing what one upholds his life for …is surrender to the beloved and a sacred offering of self sacrifice must be made to embody love which has no rejection or never knows how to say a NO. A distortion and abusive conditioning many of us are deeply inflicted with. Jesus died on the cross without a question.. and so must I to prove I’m loving enough. A subtle ego derivative identity of being loving and spiritual comes from the illusion of not knowing self love . Because when one knows and honors himself more and more…it is revealed that no amount of succumbing to self sacrifice appeals the beloved and that the whole concept of love and living in such a narcissist association is ones own addiction and weakness and misunderstanding of pure love which starts by honoring one self and loving and accepting oneself first and foremost.. and this is not a ego fulfillment or some idiotic freedom but a way of existing best in ones most natural state.
Obviously the closest to you will abhor and judge and ridicule such a heart opening and self love as they have known only the possession of so called love. For them..love is ownership, sacrifice and surrender …which they compel themselves and all others to fit in. When u begin to see everything for what it is and not through the colored glasses of concepts of love… One is free in the true sense of the word. Give up being a part of this narcissist co dependence which can’t serve u any ways if u wish to uncover your own beauty and truth.
Live in the sacredness and fullness of your own being. See your own grandeur and your innocent spirit and reject any and all who try to force u to believe anything contrary to this.
You are always and all ready…there never has been anyone else…there never will be .